You love your elderly and you care for them. You have the best of the intentions to visit them, but you need to understand that everyone here is fiercely independent, and your elders are no exception. When you try to take them home with you, they will be afraid of losing their autonomy. When you call them and inform about your arrival, they will try to become the best versions of themselves. The kind of effort will last for a few days. 

If you see that your elderly look better than you thought they would, do not conclude anything until you observe everything for a few days. You never know how your elderly are trying to hide their need for assistance. But you are smart and as you are their younger one, you must accurately determine if they need your help at this stage. 

This is also the right stage where your elderly must think about their Will and Estate in Kelowna. The least they can do is to handover the power of attorney in Kelowna to their most trusted confidant. 

Here are some signs through which you can tell if your elderly needs help. 

    • Check their mailing list, if you see a pile of unread mails or too much of a junk accumulated, you should understand that it is becoming unmanageable for your elderly. 

    • Check the refrigerator and see if there is a room for fresh veggies and fruits. The condition of the refrigerator can tell you a lot. 

    • Do not forget to check their medications and supplements. 

If you need any help with Will and estate in Kelowna, you can reach out to us.